Ing. RICHARD WRITES: PUSSY EVANGELISM

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One of the things that baffled me here in Ghana, when I first came out as an atheist, was the back-lash that I got. It was like crabs in a bucket, and one want to move out, all the others would want to pull it back. I self-isolated for 2 months, during that two month period,I got the atheist experience. Inner peace and freedom.

During that period, I got to know my true lovers, and the fake people in my life. I also realized quickly that, some people were my friends simply because I was in the same religion with them. Most of the people that were singing my praise as I am a good guy,all of a sudden were attacking me without any recourse when I try to expose the falsehood in their particular religion. Some even wished me doom to prove their religion. How ?

A lady that was pressuring me to marry her after graduation, all of a sudden lost interest in me because my religious views have changed. She threatened to breakup with me, if I don’t re-believe in God. She didn’t care what my arguments were, all she want to know is that, I profess faith. She finally gave up on me, when I didn’t do her biding and never appreciated my honesty.

In my search for the love of my life, I discovered that,I was exactly the kind of guy most ladies would love to date except that, I don’t believe in God. One lady told me, “you’re good looking, you’re intelligent, and you speak well but I can’t marry an atheist.

At another point, another lady was trying to use her feminine charm to make me dismiss logical reasoning and reneged to belief but I stood on my grounds. 

Through my experience, I’ve come to discover why divorce is high amongst believers more than unbelievers. Many religious women are indoctrinated to choose their partners on religious lines, hence consider very little the real issues of biological importance. A Ghanaian woman will likely choose an undesirable man who believes in God ahead of a desirable man who disbelief in God.

In Ghana, Muslims are marrying Muslims, and Christians are marrying Christians in their very sects. A Ghanaian woman’s love is tied to her religion. Because of that, many men are coerced to be religious to be desirable to the heavily indoctrinated Ghanaian women. In every religious sect in Ghana, women are the majority, and they are ones that pull the men in, I call that pussy evangelism. 

Many Ghanaian women have not been exposed to the beauty of court wedding or irreligious wedding, hence in their minds, the only way they can get married is through religion. That’s a misconception. Loving someone should transcend religion. Religion has taken a strong hold in the minds of many female youngsters in Ghana. And it is the same religion that make them land in wrong marriages. Emancipation is of the essence. 

Bill Gate is an atheist, her wife is a catholic. There are many atheist marriages that are strong and powerful because love superseded religion. Ghanaian women must learn quickly. 

Written By: Ing.Richard Mawuli Amegatse

 

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